Holding Grief & Building Resilience Together
A Virtual Panel for Families & Allies of Transgender, Non-Binary, & Gender Expansive Youth in Honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance
Thursday, November 20th, 2025 from 7:00-8:30pm Eastern
Hosted by Ackerman Institute for the Family’s Gender & Family Project
Made possible in part by Partners Against The Hate (PATH)
Our community is under attack. How do we grieve? How do we protect our youth?
In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, the Ackerman Institute for the Family’s Gender & Family Project will host a virtual panel featuring individuals and organizations supporting transgender, non-binary, and gender expansive youth in the New York area. The panel will offer a virtual space for families of transgender and non-binary youth and allies to gather resources, ask questions, and be in community amid rising anti-transgender legislation and rhetoric.
Transgender Day of Remembrance is observed annually to memorialize members of the transgender, non-binary, and gender expansive community lost to transphobic violence, through murder or suicide. Such tragedy can feel overwhelming and terrifying, especially for young people in our community and the adults who support them. Join us in honoring those we’ve lost and learn how to show up and protect our transgender, non-binary, and gender expansive youth during these tumultuous times. In grief and resilience, we are stronger together.
RSVP
* To ensure a safe, virtual experience for our panelists and attendees, we kindly require an RSVP. A virtual link will be sent out to attendees shortly before the event. If you have any questions regarding this event or RSVP form, please email gfp@ackerman.org .
About Us
The Gender & Family Project (GFP) empowers youth, families and communities by providing gender affirmative services, training, and research. GFP promotes gender inclusivity as a form of social justice in all the systems involved in the life of the family.
Working directly with transgender and gender expansive young people, their families and their communities, GFP offers a variety of programs and services aimed to build community, decrease isolation, and foster hope and resiliency. Through clinical services and community groups (both virtual and in-person), research, training and education, GFP provides comprehensive and customized advocacy, regardless of a family’s financial situation or ability to pay.
Upcoming Offerings
Virtual Caregiver Group
Saturday, November 22nd from 10:00am-12:00pm Eastern
Email Sanniel at ssanabia@ackerman.org

Ten, FREE Family Therapy Sessions for FEAT clients
Email Sanniel at ssanabia@ackerman.org

Panelists

Alexis Diaz, LCSW
they, them
Ackerman Institute, Gender & Family Project, Clinic Supervisor
Alexis Diaz, LCSW, PLLC, Private Practice
Alexis (they/them) is a licensed clinical social worker with more than a decade of experience in a variety of settings; from outreach, to clinics, to schools, & nonprofits. They are a small business owner, offering counseling, consultation, and teaching with a focus on queer and trans people of color as well as those working towards social & environmental justice. Alexis is a professor at the Silberman School of Social Work and supervises clinicians at the Gender & Family Project and the Ackerman Institute for the Family. They’re from a middle-class, Puerto Rican family— big in people, opinions, personalities, and stories!

Mae Testa Feliciano
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Gender & Family Project, Former Youth & Peer Facilitator
Mae Testa Feliciano (She/Her) is a 26 year old trans woman from Brooklyn, NY. As a former GFP youth, and then Peer Facilitator, GFP has been a meaningful place, especially in early transition. Since then she has become a Pratt graduate in Communication Design. Spending time working in advertising, as a freelance graphic designer, and as a youth culinary and food science educator, she enjoys finding ways to be creative, especially with work. In her free time she loves to bake, cook, and crochet, and is a big theater, sports, and trivia fan.

Alaina Daniels
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Trans formative Schools, Executive Director & Co-Founder
Alaina Daniels is a white, queer, neurodivergent, nonbinary trans woman devoted to building a world where trans kids can just be kids who live, learn, love, and belong. After ten years teaching middle school science and sex ed, co-founding the NYC Trans Educator Network, and co-writing NYC School’s protections for trans kids, Alaina co-founded both Trans formative Schools and Aunties and Friends for Liberation. Their work provides a free joyful afterschool space where over a hundred trans kids have felt safe enough to learn. Moreover, TfS and the Aunties successfully fought the Moms for Liberty on the school board; emboldened NYC to invest a historic $14 million in trans power and care; broke the story that trans youth were losing health care in NYC; organized the largest ever rally for trans youth; and were Grand Marshalls of the NYC Pride Parade. They are opening a trans middle school and seek to catalyze a global movement of liberatory trans-led schoolhouses.

Charlie Ferguson
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Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund, Daniel H. Renberg Legal Fellow
Charlie Ferguson is the Daniel H. Renberg Legal Fellow at Lambda Legal, the oldest and largest national legal organization committed to achieving full recognition of the civil rights of LGBTQ+ people and those living with HIV/AIDS. In this role, they use both litigation and policy to protect the fundamental rights of transgender and queer people nation-wide. Prior to joining Lambda Legal, they were the Director of Housing Work’s LGBTQ+ Youth Clubhouse in Brooklyn, NY.
With a healing offering from:

Jea Frasier, LMSW RYT-200
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Jea Frasier is healing. A proud Black and Trans New Yorker, they are committed to co-creating spaces where healing, repair, and joy are an ever-present possibility. As an ancestor-in-training with a superpower of “feeling their feelings,” they bring their experience of trauma and somatic healing to equity work and are building the future of their ancestors' wildest dreams.
Event Links
Trans Remembrance Project
TDOR information, stories, and statistics
Project Spark Interim Report (The Trevor Project)
A Longitudinal Study of Protective and Risk Factors in LGBTQ+ Youth Mental Health (2023-2025)
Anti-Trans Bills Tracker (Trans Legislation Tracker)
LGBTQIA+ Legislative Tracker across the United States
Erin In The Morning
News and discussion on trans legislation and life
TransSlash
Trans media and news source
Panelists
Gender & Family Project
The Gender & Family Project (GFP) empowers youth, families and communities by providing gender affirmative services, training, and research. GFP promotes gender inclusivity as a form of social justice in all the systems involved in the life of the family.Through community and clinical services, research, training and education, GFP provides comprehensive and customized advocacy, regardless of a family’s financial situation or ability to pay.
www.genderandfamilyproject.org
Upcoming Offerings:
Anti-Violence Project
The New York City Anti-Violence Project (AVP) is the nation’s largest organization supporting LGBTQ+ and HIV-affected survivors of violence, providing hotline, counseling, and advocacy services since 1980.
LAMBDA Legal
The Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund, Inc. (“Lambda Legal”) is a national organization working to achieve full recognition of the civil rights of lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, transgender people and everyone living with HIV, through impact litigation, education and public policy work.
Trans formative Schools
We are Trans formative Schools, a progressive education community centering trans joy and social justice. Our mission is to support trans futures by uplifting the lives of trans children, trans educators, and families touched by transness.
Aunties and Friends for Liberation
Partners Against The Hate (PATH)
Additional Resources
A selection of resources for transgender, non-binary, and gender expansive youth, their families, allies, and mental health providers. Please engage at your own discretion.
Trans Lifeline
Peer support phone service run by trans people for trans and questioning peers.
Call 877-565-8860
The Trevor Project
Provides 24/7 crisis support services to LGBTQ young people.
Call 866-488-7386
Text 678678
Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Formerly the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline.
Call or Text 988
Call 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
SAGE LGBTQ+ Elder Hotline
Connects LGBTQ+ older people who want to talk with friendly responders who are ready to listen.
Call 877-360-LGBT (5428)
Call BlackLine
Peer support and counseling prioritizing BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, and People of Color).
Call 1-800-604-5841 or use the app in your mobile app store
TransAtlas (Callen-Lorde Community Health Center)
A digital resource map for people of Transgender, Non-binary and/or Intersex experience living in New York City
Trans+ History Week (Queer AF)
Trans+ History Week is dedicated to celebrating the rich history of transgender, non-binary, gender-diverse, and intersex individuals through stories, events and lesson books for the whole world to use
Transgender Law Center (Transgender Law Center)
Legal toolkits and resources for transgender and gender non-conforming people in the United States
TransSlash
Trans media and news source
Transgender Resources (GLAAD)
Resource lists of crisis hotlines, transgender organizations, transgender programs, and more
Transgender Resources (HRC)
Resources and essays exploring topics affecting the transgender community
Transgender Resources (PFLAG)
Online academy, publications, and more
Resources About Gender Identity (The Trevor Project)
Articles about understanding gender identity and the gender spectrum and guides for supporting transgender and non-binary young people
Resource Library (Trans Lifeline)
Database of transgender-related articles, essays, guides, and more
Anti-Trans Bills Tracker (Trans Legislation Tracker)
LGBTQIA+ Legislative Tracker across the United States
Erin In The Morning
News and discussion on trans legislation and life
